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My bf is having financial troubles. He's tried so hard to find a new job (he has a job now, but it sucks and he hates it. He feels like he is going no where in life.) He wants to move in with his dad's family in Colorado. He says he doesn't know if he should go because he doesn't want to make this trip and live there without me. He will be up there for about a year until he can get back up on his feet. We have been dating for four years, I am 18 and he is 19. I will be able to visit him during spring break and a week or two in the summer, maybe another holiday. He can visit me about the same amount of time. Any advice? Please be serious I hate everyone saying it won't last long! Just because there is distance, that doesn't mean that it won't last. Thanks Libay for getting my point. He's going up for awhile to become financially stable for us, then coming back down and we're both going to move back up. I have helped him try to get jobs, etc. Nothing is working. If he moves up north, he already has a job waiting for him making a lot more money than down here. I told him to go, i can't go due to school right now.
Public Comments
- it won't last long once he is gone
- I think you are both young so explore the world while you can. If you are committed to each other, distance will not be a problem. He could find a stable job somewhere, concentrate on his career. And maybe if he is already financially stable someday, you could talk about serious stuff like getting married and having a family. As they say, distance makes the heart grow fonder. Goodluck.
- no its very hard for a long distance relationship out of sight out of mind.
- Well really your an adult now so moving away from your parents is step one getting an education/job is another thing. but honestly idk what you should do but whatever you do i hope it is a good choice. good luck
- Four years is a really long time to put in risk. If you don't want to lose this man don't let him go. even though a long distance relationships can work, most don't. It would be a lot easier to keep this guy at your side. He seems nice enough for you to want him around. Keep it that way and help him to his feet. thats what i would at least attempt to do.
