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My ex is not paying the alimony....?

My ex husband stop sending me my alimony 3 months ago with no explanation and recently I heard from someone that his new wife who was the woman who wreck our marriage and convince him to abandom us is the person brainwashing him to do so . Will he get in troble for this? My kids and I are having a bad holiday due to financial problems because of this .How evil can a person be ,first she seek my husband cause she needed another check to help her ,distroy my marriage ,create an enormous amount of suffering since she also manage to convince my ex not to ever call or look for the kids and now this .I can not believed that people like that feel happiness.And the horror of it all is that she goes to a pentecostal church with him on sundays pretending to be soo holy.

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You need to call your attorney, get his wages garnished and get the money. He is in a contract. what would happen if he didn't pay a mortgage for three months?
damn penecostals
I so know how you feel...my ex husband cheated on me and his current girlfriend did the same thing....$80,000 in back child support currently and I am still taking him to court...the system sucks and no one will help me. Take him back to court and hopefully it will scare him to pay you. Good luck_
Obviously you take him to court, but you can't blame it all on your ex's new wife. He has to take responsibility too for his actions, and you sound as if you still have feelings for him. He cheated on you and is putting your kids through a rough time because of a new woman. Stand up and confront your sorry ex, not the other woman. If he doesn't follow through, then take him to court and have the same judge who ordered the alimony hear your case.
There are just people out there who have no concept of right or wrong. Yes, your ex can get into trouble--big trouble. Is he refusing to pay child support as well? Talk to your lawyer & let him know how far behind your ex is. Your children should not have to do without, no matter why he isn't paying. The courts will do what is right for the children. If this means your ex gets into trouble than so be it. He is a grown man and should know better.
get the lawyer and take him back to court
He will go into arrears and you can have it taken out of his pay directly or you will get his tax refunds every year until it is up to date. He can try to escape it, but it will haunt him until he dies. They will even take it out of his social security checks if he's behind on payments. Call the lawyer you had for your divorce and see what you need to do to collect. If it's going through the courts they will already know it's in arrears and take action. If it's not through the courts, you need to have the paperwork drawn up to get it that way if you can. Good Luck to you. Just remember, what goes around comes around. Sooner or later, they will get what's coming to them too, for what they are putting you through now. Any help you can get from welfare get it. He'll have to repay that too.
yes he can he can even be sent to prision for not paying his child support . dont let her win call a child support agencey and report it .that's only fair the kids are the ones suffering for all this mess .
Get your attorney to garnish his wages. I know someone that didn't pay child support and his money was taken out of his check from his job and sent to his son.Please call your attorney as soon as possible and let him know what's going on.
Sounds like she really didn't get a good man. He should have a backbone and pay for his children. They come first. You need to get him back to court and work this out. They will attach his check. I know it hurts right now and it is very hard, but you need to pickup for the kids and do whatever it is you have to do to keep your family going. Talk to family right now and ask for help. As far as your ex goes sounds like you are better off without him.
We wont get into people that believe in religion but their actions speak otherwise here. Yes he can get into alot of trouble here. You need to take him back to court to get the courts to enforce the decree order for spousal support. He will then have to bring the account up to date and then continue regular payments. She wont have a voice in this as this is a court order between you and him. Good luck and Merry Christmas
First talk to him...then take him to court.
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I don't know where you live but here in the U.S. alimony isn't automatically awarded in a divorce any longer as long as both sides are able bodied and CAN work. If there are children then of course there is child support but that is a different issue than alimony. As far as your ex's new wife destroying your marriage..I don't understand since you and your ex are no longer married there is nothing for a new wife to destroy there...unless you are remarried and how SHE can destroy your new marriage is questionable as well. Your ex is an adult (I assume) and he also has choices in the matter of seeing his children. If he doesn't see his children don't blame his new wife, again he has the CHOICE of seeing them or not, if not then the blame is on HIM, not her. Frankly in this entire rant you have done nothing but blame her...again your ex husband has choices in this matter and obviously he has made his choices...You should be blaming him and not her.
take his a s s to court asap
wow...sounds like you are blaming the WRONG person...not once in your sad sap story did you once blame HIM...am i to assume she kidnapped him thus ending your marriage?...it seems as though, reading this story, that you know more about HER than you do HIM...it is time that you put the blame squarely where it belongs...ON HIM... HE is the one that cheated...HE is the one not calling the kids...HE is the one not paying you...how do you know he didnt buttercup his way into her life?...it IS possible that he NEVER told her he was married....
Don't delay, it becomes a sign of weakness. Sounds like you should be recieving child support in addition to alimony...Get an attorney, not one of those pickle-heads from the state attorney's office (they only go thru the motions). Get a good one that will also hit the bum for court costs. It's your right to the money, not a privilege. Don't wait p.s. I'm a father that paid my obligation for many years. Just make sure you treat him right when it comes to being with/seeing his kids. God Bless