Fed Financial
Psychology category - PLEASE HELP!!!?
I have been living with my partner for a couple of years now and we love one another. But lately we've been arguing. My partner financially has nothing and I have quite a lot of money. It is my wish for us to both buy a house in our names so it can be our home. But my partner is dead against it. He says he loves me and would marry me at any second but does not wish to take the financial burden of buying a house. I just don't get it..I want a nice home for us but he says he doesn't want to take a risk . i.e. take a loan..but the loan would be very affordable ..very small..he still doesn't want to. He says he wants his money for holidays and enjoyment etc and doesn't want to spend it on a house. I am really frustrated and starting to resent him. I want a lovely home for us. Instead of him feeling..great! I have a woman I love and she's got money to but us a house, he seems to not want to take that step. My family say, well..if he doesn't want to, it'll be his loss. What should I do? We are both 30 years old.
Public Comments
- you partner can make up for it in other ways. if not kick his ass out. don't let money get in the way of love.
- You buy it in your own name then he is taking no risk and you have the house!
- maybe he's scared of financial responsibility like fearing taking on too many obligations or just not wanting to be burdened because he is lazy i have to ask does he have problems with money like he doesn't want to spend it doesn't care about it at all willing to live in poverty and be ok with it? if so then that is a hard battle to fight i know because im fighting it with my husband right now maybe he is insecure and thinks that you may leave sometime and he would be left with a payment that he'd rather not make
