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Is it wise to expect/offer a sex favour in return of financial help(big amount) for free out of no choice.?

I have a situation where I had to pay some Uni fee loans without which I have to leave to my homecountry empty hands.But to get succeed, this is the only instant option I have.Its not that,its my very first time I had to do...but definately with a stranger.I know can forget the incident once finished...but how far is it wise to loose that for money????

Public Comments

1. What?
2. Ask the same to your heart...and family.kids..spouse if any....my gut feeling is NO
3. If you have to ask the question I think you know the answer.
4. no. not wise. make friends with him. no sex. treat him like a close friend who is the same sex. unless you're gay. there aer better ways to say thank you you know.
5. In other words, you're talking about prostitution. That's a slippery slope. Is it really your only option? It may very well be. But it sounds like you have some serious qualms about prostituting yourself out, so you might face some serious psychological issues for doing so. And then you leave yourself more likely to do it again in the future if you've done it once. In the end, I don't think anyone can really tell you what to do except yourself. It sounds like this is a drastic, life-altering choice one way or another. Personally, if it meant the difference between completing a university education and being deported home, I'd probably do it. It's a practical, economic decision, but your moral and/or ethical values may be too important to you.
6. In my view, sex need be consented to only out of love and affection. Any other consideration demeans you. It is ultimately your choice, for if i were to press my view further, i might sound judgemental. If you like the person for the help he had rendered to you and you want to express it through sex, well go ahead, although personally it is unacceptable to me.
7. Hey, if that's what it seems to be coming down to, and you feel obligated, or are wanting to show your utmost appreciation,then you do what you feel you gotta do..but make sure when it's over that you've cleared the debt.(you don't want to finish and have them say, " I thought you liked me" and "you still owe me"--In other words, if you do it, let them know why you're doing it" But avoid that altogether if possible...(bad for your sense of self character)
8. It happens all the time around the world sexual favours for money or any other favours . If you will have no guilt about what will happen there is no problem in going ahead with the offer.There are people around the globe who prefer orgies with multiple people yours is atleast a less than that situations and who knows you might even enjoy the moments with the stranger.
9. dance
10. Some time you may feel that you have no options. But to let yourself go that route, could cost you more in the end, such as your life. With all that is out there in the world no one needs to end up a statistic. Their are other ways of getting money.
11. To my wife: Don't get mad at me for this answer I am about to give. Its the truth, my truth dear. Now Swarna, I believe sex should be only out of love and affection. And it should only be done by married couples. No other ways. (I can hear my wife saying hallelujah) But we all know that's not what is happening. People are having random sex everyday. people are having sex with people they don't like for reasons that they don't know or like. Oh, that's truth. Now, what is wrong with having sex with someone who has helped you? i mean, we all have ways of showing our appreciation (hope i don't sound rude). I know ladies who are so much against prostitution but get picked up by guys they don't know at the bars or parties every weekend. (Not your friends my dear wife) Your case i guess is not of prostitution but of an act of appreciation. In the end, do what you want to do. You know yourself better that we do...